When we take back our true place in life, free from the calls of the past of the family system, a “Yes to Life” occurs that does not come from effort, but from a natural opening of the heart and a yes to oneself.
There are “no’s” that live within us without our knowledge.
They can manifest themselves in difficulties with our children or partner, with our parents or at work and in relationships in general.
Or we may experience them in our inability to move lightly toward creativity and the joy of living.
We may feel held back, blocked, sometimes without a clear sense of direction.
But often these “no’s” are not really ours: we unconsciously share them with the family system, out of love. It is blind love that moves us and unites us with our ancestors in suffering or difficulty.
Following one’s own joy and direction is sometimes accompanied by an inexplicable feeling of guilt.
When these hidden bonds emerge during a Systemic Constellation, a lot of vital energy is released, along with clarity and strength towards one’s choices.
The thread of love with parents and ancestors is purified, becoming conscious love, capable of supporting us instead of holding us back. The spirit is lightened.
This is how our individuality is born, our courage to simply be ourselves.